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Can We Calculate Our Giving?


10 November 2024

By Nina Warriner of Bath, New York, USA

As he taught, he said, “Beware of the scribes, who like to walk around in long robes, and to be greeted with respect in the marketplaces, and to have the best seats in the synagogues and places of honor at banquets! They devour widows’ houses and for the sake of appearance say long prayers. They will receive the greater condemnation.”

He sat down opposite the treasury and watched the crowd putting money into the treasury. Many rich people put in large sums. A poor widow came and put in two small copper coins, which are worth a penny. Then he called his disciples and said to them, “Truly I tell you, this poor widow has put in more than all those who are contributing to the treasury. For all of them have contributed out of their abundance; but she out of her poverty has put in everything she had, all she had to live on.”

Mark 12:38–44

Below is an excerpt of words I shared at a beloved friend and colleague’s memorial gathering.

When I think of Becca, one word comes to mind—selfless. Becca was a person who never asked for anything, but gave so much! Whether it be a cup (or three) of coffee (and if you didn’t like coffee, she had a variety of tea bags available) or the numerous flavor shots you could use to make your drink unique and fun. Or candy and treats she might have plentifully restocked just so she could share with her friends and colleagues. Or even the sweater off her back if she thought you were cold. Becca made you feel welcomed and wanted. She was continually present when you were with her. She would ask about what was going on in your life and was always ready to listen to your joys or struggles. Her heart was an endless fountain of love and compassion.

In the wake of her generous and loving heart, Becca’s legacy lives on as one of the kindest, most compassionate, and giving souls I have ever known.

As we consider how we can be more like Becca in our lives, it really comes down to radical generosity—sharing of ourselves in each opportunity we are presented with, being intentional about seeing others and responding to their needs, being ready to lavish love and attention on others just as Becca did.

In her all-too-short time, Becca lived a life of radical generosity. She gave without hesitation from the overflow of love that dwelled within her. The effects of her giving continue to reach outward. Her school adopted an initiative called “Be Like Becca” which encourages students and staff alike to mirror the kindness and generosity she poured out to others.

May we be challenged to live daily like Becca.

Prayer Phrase

“For everything created by God is good” (1 Timothy 4:4).

Spiritual Practice

Joy of Gratitude

Stand, if possible, with arms outstretched. Imagine God filling your arms with all that you have: family, friends, and possessions. Hold out your arms until they feel tired. Now, bring your arms across your body. Place your hand over your heart and thank God for the abundance that fills your life. Sit for a time aware of that abundance. Then ask God to help you open your heart in gratitude and share freely with others.

Today’s Prayer for Peace

Engage in a daily practice of praying for peace in our world. Click here to read today’s prayer and be part of this practice of peace.

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